This week, however, I choose to focus on the women. I hear women complain that their man is cheating on them, even when they try hard to satisfy him. It’s time for you to check your faults; you may also be making one or more of the following mistakes, and killing the vibes. Let’s look at the common mistakes I feel most women are guilty of.
Mistake 1. He is not a mind reader
I cannot understand why women think a man should know it all in bed. That a man has had experiences does not make him qualified for all women, so you should open up and tell him what you want, or he’ll treat you the same way he treated the last. Learn to express your desires to your companion.
Mistake 2. Shut up and drive
I intentionally wrote this point on the heels of the first so you don’t get it mixed up. Bed/sex time is not the time to whine about your day or make financial demands, nor is it a time to lament about his cheating. Quit the chatter, it’s a huge turn off for most men. Let your conversation be centered on the event and make it short and sensual.
Mistake 3. She is a boring box
Why do you lie down like a log of wood and expect the man to enjoy sex with you? Let’s face it, some response from you would encourage your man. Don’t be a bore in life and in bed. Show some enthusiasm here. Let’s just say you can start by moving your waist to the rhythm?
Mistake 4. She has low self-esteem
This mistake may be the most common, as most women are conscious of their flabby ass, protruding stomach, lumpy flesh etc. Well, findings have shown that during sex, a man isn’t seeing those flaws. Quit complaining about those things! Besides, who says he didn’t assess you long before you got into his bed? Learn to be confident about your body because low self-esteem brings about bad sex.
Mistake 5. Don’t mistake tickling for pleasure
It is natural for women to be more ticklish than men. Therefore, unless you’re sure he enjoys being tickled, please stop it. Just because he strains his legs and moves his body or has a smile on his face doesn’t mean he enjoys your tickling moves. He may just be fighting the urge to kick you in the face.
Mistake 6. She the piglet
Personal hygiene for both parties is very important, but much more for the woman. No one wants to see an overgrown ‘area,’ it is completely uninviting. Have a shower and wear clean lingerie before going to bed. You may also use light cologne to give you a more pleasant fragrance.
Mistake 7. She never initiates lovemaking
I don’t understand why a woman who desires sex from her man keeps quiet about it. Why starve yourself for something you crave? It’s a plus for women who know what they want and go for it. Don’t be scared to reveal your desires, most men appreciate it, and are turned on by it.
Mistake 8. The school called sex
Ladies should realise that sex is not all about the act; it is a process of learning and experimenting. Don’t stick with the one thing you have known all your life. Experiment and learn more; most men are good teachers if you are a willing and good student.
Mistake 9. He licks your sauce you ignore his sausage
Do you like getting head? Yes! Do you give blow jobs? No! Huh? That is not a balanced diet if you ask me; the sauce should go with the sausage. In addition, ask how the sausage should be eaten if you don’t know, instead of groping in the dark. A blow job does require some talent, and at the very least, some enthusiasm.
Mistake 10. Gliding off for a shower.
I cannot understand it when women scamper off for a shower or get dressed immediately after sex. What is the point of that? Hang around in bed and relish the moment. Cuddling and snuggling together would make the experience better!
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